back, oh, back in the day, back when i was with sean, we used to say that i would be first.. i was just thinking about the other day, after still being bitter about not being invited to gina's wedding. but ah, there it is. julia's married. becca, gina.. now chrissy is engaged.. i think that pretty much leaves me last.. there's steph, but she and jim have been together years and years, probably commonlaw by now. funny how things change.